Mr_Danger Posted December 17, 2023 Share Posted December 17, 2023 I think the whole anger at people being offended by you genuinely mispronouncing their pronouns is a bit of a fallacy. Outside of Twitter, Reddit and the odd person people aren’t getting offended at being misgendered by mistake. Sure if you go out of your way to purposely misgender a person then they’re within their rights to kick off but us innocent ‘normies’ aren’t being persecuted for our blissful ignorance no matter how hard we try to be. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
King Mal the Glorious Posted December 17, 2023 Share Posted December 17, 2023 (edited) 14 minutes ago, Devon Malcolm said: Or maybe they're gender fluid? Try asking. They're not, I have asked. Edit for clarity: they identify as trans-masculine. Edited December 17, 2023 by King Mal the Glorious Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paid Members Devon Malcolm Posted December 17, 2023 Paid Members Share Posted December 17, 2023 Just now, Mr_Danger said: I think the whole anger at people being offended by you genuinely mispronouncing their pronouns is a bit of a fallacy. Outside of Twitter, Reddit and the odd person people aren’t getting offended at being misgendered by mistake. Sure if you go out of your way to purposely misgender a person then they’re within their rights to kick off but us innocent ‘normies’ aren’t being persecuted for our blissful ignorance no matter how hard we try to be. Probably a bit of an open secret but my 16yo is a trans man. I've seen and heard both sides of it - people deliberately misgendering him for whatever their spiteful reasons are and people who are making a genuine mistake. He knows the difference and so do I and he doesn't get upset if people make a genuine mistake. I'd say it was the same for 95% of trans, non-binary, and gender non-conforming people. It can be upsetting when somebody you know regularly makes the mistake though. It's usually masking that person's actual feelings about the pronouns and gender issues in our experience. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keith Houchen Posted December 17, 2023 Share Posted December 17, 2023 2 minutes ago, Devon Malcolm said: Probably a bit of an open secret but my 16yo is a trans man. I've seen and heard both sides of it - people deliberately misgendering him for whatever their spiteful reasons are and people who are making a genuine mistake. He knows the difference and so do I and he doesn't get upset if people make a genuine mistake. I'd say it was the same for 95% of trans, non-binary, and gender non-conforming people. It can be upsetting when somebody you know regularly makes the mistake though. It's usually masking that person's actual feelings about the pronouns and gender issues in our experience. Given the toxicity surrounding it all, and what I imagine must be a horrible world to be a teenager in, I think it’s a testament to his upbringing that he has the confidence tell you this. It says to me that he has a father who supports, understands, and loves him. You’re proud of him and rightly so, and I suspect he’s equally as proud of you. And rightfully so. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paid Members JNLister Posted December 18, 2023 Paid Members Share Posted December 18, 2023 Not going to link to it because it doesn't even deserve the hate clicks, but the online site of the the Mail has a story based on the idea that a woman with a pixie cut winning Miss Universe is "woke". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paid Members Devon Malcolm Posted December 18, 2023 Paid Members Share Posted December 18, 2023 59 minutes ago, JNLister said: woman with a pixie cut Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keith Houchen Posted December 18, 2023 Share Posted December 18, 2023 23 minutes ago, Devon Malcolm said: Â Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paid Members Devon Malcolm Posted December 18, 2023 Paid Members Share Posted December 18, 2023 Wait until the Daily Mail hears about this woman called Audrey Hepburn. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paid Members Lion_of_the_Midlands Posted December 18, 2023 Paid Members Share Posted December 18, 2023 6 minutes ago, Devon Malcolm said: Wait until the Daily Mail hears about this woman called Audrey Hepburn. Two things Dev, Audrey was born in Belgium so the Mail would class her as an immigrant who came over here and took a British job, and she started making films in the late 1940s which is at least 100 years ahead of the mindset of the average Mail reader. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paid Members Carbomb Posted December 18, 2023 Paid Members Share Posted December 18, 2023 They'd have also gone after Audrey for rejecting her dad's fascist leanings. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keith Houchen Posted December 18, 2023 Share Posted December 18, 2023 1 hour ago, Devon Malcolm said: Wait until the Daily Mail hears about this woman called Audrey Hepburn. And Mia Farrow. Oh wait, they don’t want to do that without Hadley Freemans permission. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WyattSheepMask Posted December 18, 2023 Share Posted December 18, 2023 1 hour ago, Lion_of_the_Midlands said: Two things Dev, Audrey was born in Belgium so the Mail would class her as an immigrant who came over here and took a British job, and she started making films in the late 1940s which is at least 100 years ahead of the mindset of the average Mail reader. But they love the 40s don’t they? Everything was great back then- Buzz bombs, Rickets - wonderful. Much better than these days Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paid Members Carbomb Posted December 18, 2023 Paid Members Share Posted December 18, 2023 5 hours ago, WyattSheepMask said: But they love the 40s don’t they? Everything was great back then- Buzz bombs, Rickets - wonderful. Much better than these days Alright, Jasper 😉 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keith Houchen Posted January 29 Share Posted January 29 You can’t even call people paedophiles these days without them successfully suing you. And they’re allowed to call you racist for being a racist.  Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
King Coconut Posted January 29 Share Posted January 29 But I thought Elon Musk, along with being a paedophile, proved it was alright for us to call non-paedos paedos! I don't know whether I'm coming or going. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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