Undefeated Steak Posted February 5, 2015 Share Posted February 5, 2015 Nope, enjoy your twenties if you can and savour every wonderful moment coz you're about to spend your thirties being fucking miserable and worrying about everything possible. Â I must have gotten a head start! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paid Members Bellenda Carlisle Posted February 5, 2015 Paid Members Share Posted February 5, 2015 Â Â Nope, enjoy your twenties if you can and savour every wonderful moment coz you're about to spend your thirties being fucking miserable and worrying about everything possible. I must have gotten a head start! I'm running really late Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
patiirc Posted February 5, 2015 Share Posted February 5, 2015 (edited) Without being all facebook attention seeking girl here I will just add one thing. Â Fuck relationships, fuck love, fuck being there for someone and actually making a life with them. Just fuck all of that. Â Now with that said, what's everyone's thoughts on rebounds? Are they healthy, is it just a case of not over thinking it? Â And as a mid twenties guy, is it ok to not think about the future and just have fun? I know it's somewhat of a stupid question, but I have had 1 one night stand in my life and hated it, I didn't like it for myself or the girl. It's just a horrible thing in my mind. Plus I actually like talking. Conversation is something I love, Sometimes more than Sexual stuff. But that has gotten me to a point where I don't want to pour my heart out and care for someone as much as I have. Â I don't want to do any of this out of spite, but at the same time I don't want to have to think about being alone. Which I guess is where most rebounds occur. Dude, I guess it went tits up and she strayed? Rebounds work but only if you know what you are getting in to. If you know you want to feel loved, be in a relationship, but it's not going to go anywhere then cool. If you are doing it out of revenge, you'll more likely feel like shite. Â Look at it this way, you were alone before you met ex'y and you are alone again. It doesnt mean you have failed or are a failure or even destined to be alone. Use it as a learning experience to work out what you know you want and take away from the last relationship what worked, what you hated, and what you compromised on. Look at what is you, what you pretended to be and then spend time adjusting to being happy within yourself. If a relationship then comes along then it's all good, just be ready to have some shit jump up and bite you.. Be honest about it and see where things go Edited February 5, 2015 by patiirc Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators PowerButchi Posted February 6, 2015 Moderators Share Posted February 6, 2015 Things are going prettay prettay pretty good. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paid Members SpursRiot2012 Posted February 6, 2015 Paid Members Share Posted February 6, 2015 Nice one. Now, have a baby. The earlier you have a baby, the quicker it can grow up successful and you can live off it. That's my plan. I'm slacking right now, though. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators PowerButchi Posted February 6, 2015 Moderators Share Posted February 6, 2015 (edited) She's 22, bit young for a baby (And yes Frankie Crisp, 22's a bit older than normal, ha) Edited February 6, 2015 by PowerButchi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paid Members SpursRiot2012 Posted February 6, 2015 Paid Members Share Posted February 6, 2015 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators PowerButchi Posted February 6, 2015 Moderators Share Posted February 6, 2015 Butch likes em fresh as a just baked loaf, homes. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fanny Pack Posted February 6, 2015 Share Posted February 6, 2015 (edited) The younger they are the less they are going to pester you for kids and want to get married. Â Im 27 and have been with my 22 year old girlfriend for 4 years. Â Not a peep. Â Edit: but fuck me, shes addicted to going on holiday at least twice a year. Edited February 6, 2015 by Fanny Pack Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
King Pitcos Posted February 6, 2015 Share Posted February 6, 2015 22? What happened to the 18? Butchman's losing his touch. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paid Members Tommy! Posted February 10, 2015 Paid Members Share Posted February 10, 2015 I'm infatuated with a woman. I'm not in love or anything and logically know nothing could happen and I couldn't live a life with this person, its just stuff like that rums me over a bit, being a bit of a twat and all, especially when I'm on a down, stressed out or all freaky-deaky. Â Is there a good way to get it out of my system quick? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators PowerButchi Posted February 10, 2015 Moderators Share Posted February 10, 2015 (edited) She's 22, bit young for a baby (And yes Frankie Crisp, 22's a bit older than normal, ha) Â After her apathetic reaction to Wales defeat at the hands of England on Friday, throwing out the gambit "let's go dancing, come on, let's dance. Don't be so sad about it, it's over now. We're out, let's have fun" within 10 minutes of full time, I let her know a short while that evening that I don't feel it's going to work. I'm going back to teenagers. Edited February 10, 2015 by PowerButchi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
patiirc Posted February 12, 2015 Share Posted February 12, 2015 Butchi, hope all works out with your new lassy! Question: You've been stalked (legitimately, police etc etc Im sure I mentioned it) by an ex, you split with another girl ( yeah it didnt last, quelle suprise) and get with a lass who though has red hair doesn't look like her , but stalker ex unblocks you 'magically' because, Jungle Drums. It's safe to say I'm being watched right? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paid Members FLips Posted February 12, 2015 Paid Members Share Posted February 12, 2015 Just block her if you're that worried about it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
patiirc Posted February 13, 2015 Share Posted February 13, 2015 Just block her if you're that worried about it.  I thought I had! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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