Paid Members Monkee Posted August 2, 2017 Paid Members Share Posted August 2, 2017 (edited) Ok, here's one where I need a little help... I've been talking to this guy online and he's way out of my league so I was wondering why he'd be talking to me but I gave him the benefit of the doubt. Anyway, after literally just 48 hours of chatting, he starts sending me these really long messages and they weren't his usual way of talking (e.g. he's not  the best speller). So, being the suspicious old fart that I am, I C&Pd them into Google. And he's ripping these paragraphs straight from pickupguide.com in a section called "How To Lay Girls" 😆 So, do I play along or call him out and block him? Edited August 2, 2017 by Monkee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hallicks Posted August 2, 2017 Share Posted August 2, 2017 Definitely string him along, see if you can get him to take a picture holding a sign that says "I sell Yorkie Terrier meat to Mr Ji Sung Park" as a way of proving that he's up for anything. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paid Members FLips Posted August 2, 2017 Paid Members Share Posted August 2, 2017 Absolutely play him like a fiddle. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paid Members Monkee Posted August 2, 2017 Paid Members Share Posted August 2, 2017 (edited) How far should I take it, i.e. what's my ultimate goal? I really don't think I can get him to take a photo with the sign about dog meat though as I don't even know now if he is who is actually in his pictures. I need to go on Google Images and do the reverse search to see what comes up but I can't do it on my phone. Should I try and get him to agree to meet up, but then what? *Edit: did the reverse image search and nothing came up so I'm none the wiser as to his identity. Edited August 2, 2017 by Monkee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators Astro Hollywood Posted August 2, 2017 Moderators Share Posted August 2, 2017 1 hour ago, Monkee said: How far should I take it, i.e. what's my ultimate goal? I really don't think I can get him to take a photo with the sign about dog meat though as I don't even know now if he is who is actually in his pictures. I need to go on Google Images and do the reverse search to see what comes up but I can't do it on my phone. Should I try and get him to agree to meet up, but then what? *Edit: did the reverse image search and nothing came up so I'm none the wiser as to his identity. Just tell him you know he's a creepy copypaste PUA guy and stop talking to him. Why waste so much time on an idiot? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paid Members Surf Digby Posted August 2, 2017 Paid Members Share Posted August 2, 2017 6 hours ago, Monkee said:  he's way out of my league From now on, you're not allowed to say this. If this guy is relying on c+p-ing sentences from PUA websites, then you shouldn't even be thinking it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paid Members LaGoosh Posted August 2, 2017 Paid Members Share Posted August 2, 2017 8 hours ago, Monkee said: I've been talking to this guy online and he's way out of my league No one is out of anyone's league. Less of that shit. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Moderators Chest Rockwell Posted August 2, 2017 Moderators Share Posted August 2, 2017 It's there any chance that he's not a scumbag PUA type and he was nervous and didn't know what to write? I mean, clearly it's not the right way to go about things, and he's almost certainly no good for you right now Monkee. But just being honest without being mean about it might stop him being a total twat if he's not already too far gone down that route. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paid Members Monkee Posted August 2, 2017 Paid Members Share Posted August 2, 2017 (edited) @Chest Rockwell See, this is what I'm wondering. Is it offensive to think that good-looking people are so shallow that they they only go for other good-looking people? I just don't know what to think in this situation. He's been messaging a lot so he's obviously making the effort but I'm very wary that he's not who he says he is. Is it just me?! Edited August 2, 2017 by Monkee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keith Houchen Posted August 2, 2017 Share Posted August 2, 2017 18 minutes ago, Monkee said: Is it offensive to think that good-looking people are so shallow that they they only go for other good-looking people? I remember reading this thing about how people are attracted to people who have similar facial qualities to themselves, not in a narcissistic way but something to do with that's the look you're most used to seeing.  Will try to dig it out. And no more out of your league talk.  You are hereby only allowed to say it in a jocular Patrick Swayze style.  Altogether now "SHEEZ OUTTA MAH LEEHEEEG" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paid Members Monkee Posted August 2, 2017 Paid Members Share Posted August 2, 2017 11 minutes ago, Keith Houchen said: And no more out of your league talk.  You are hereby only allowed to say it in a jocular Patrick Swayze style.  Altogether now "SHEEZ OUTTA MAH LEEHEEEG" That's one of my favourite songs. For obvious reasons 🙄 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paid Members Surf Digby Posted August 2, 2017 Paid Members Share Posted August 2, 2017 Let's be honest, we all thought Pat was out of Jennifer's league and look how that turned out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paid Members Azrall Posted August 2, 2017 Paid Members Share Posted August 2, 2017 I'd be tempted to play it out a bit more. Â Like Chest says, he could just be very insecure and not actually know what to write. Heck I still don't know what the best thing is to write on a dating site other than the glaringly obvious. Â But using a PUA website is a tad odd. Â Is there any way of replying so that he won't be able to refer back to it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paid Members Monkee Posted August 2, 2017 Paid Members Share Posted August 2, 2017 How do you mean? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paid Members Azrall Posted August 2, 2017 Paid Members Share Posted August 2, 2017 (edited) 8 minutes ago, Monkee said: How do you mean? Well, if I understand your post correctly, he's using all these "flash" paragraphs as if he's using them to reply to things you say.  Is there anything you could say that would trip him up perhaps? It might help you decide whether he is a complete tool or perhaps a tad naive. Edited August 2, 2017 by Azrall Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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