Paid Members SpursRiot2012 Posted July 27, 2016 Paid Members Posted July 27, 2016 Is it really do or die time just because she's leaving the company? Do you have her on social media? You could always message her after and see if she wants to go out for a drink, just the two of you. Quote
Mr_Danger Posted July 27, 2016 Posted July 27, 2016 (edited) Who the fuck ribs a grown adult for asking out someone anyway? Is your work really like that or are you building it up in your head? Just to elaborate on this a young lad I worked with at Sainsburys asked if a colleague had dropped something on the floor then picked up and put his number in her hand. Unbeknownst to him she was engaged and living with another colleague but no fucks were given. That little playa had nothing but my respect. Last time I seen him he was punching well above his weight too. Edited July 27, 2016 by Mr_Danger Quote
Grecian Posted July 27, 2016 Posted July 27, 2016 I do get where Otto is coming from - if the entire workforce is there, it can make it even more nerve wracking. It sounds like she likes you. My shout would be to get her phone number at the leaving do, call or text her and arrange to meet up. Quote
Paid Members FLips Posted July 27, 2016 Paid Members Posted July 27, 2016 Just ask her out you big fanny. Quote
Otto Dem Wanz Posted July 27, 2016 Posted July 27, 2016 I do already have her number, she gave it to me after I Facebook messaged her (we’re friends on there) about whether she had got someone home safely after they’d vommed everywhere on a night out we were both on We've Whatsapped a bit since. call or text her and arrange to meet up. I think I may just do that, and see how it goes at the drinks – I guess anything is possible. Quote
Paid Members Sergio Mendacious Posted July 27, 2016 Paid Members Posted July 27, 2016 Just ask her out you big fanny. Echoed... it's either that, or we'll get together a collection, and send you a ceremonial pink vest. Quote
uklaw Posted July 29, 2016 Posted July 29, 2016 Made my first 'connection' on Bumble and shock of all shocks, she actually started chatting to me (which probably doesn't sound like much of anything given the premise of the app but I hear many of the women won't chat to the guy, even after matching). I haven't chased her off but my inexperience with these things may tell soon. Quote
Paid Members LaGoosh Posted July 30, 2016 Paid Members Posted July 30, 2016 (edited) 3 months after splitting up with my wife, I went on my first Bumble date last week and surprisingly she is totally awesome and we've gone on 3 dates that have all gone extremely well with me staying round hers twice and a fourth lined up in a few days. She's even lent me a book! I don't see it being a long term relationship or anything but a summer sweetheart is a pretty cool thing. After a rough as fuck 9 months it's amazing how just meeting someone fun with no pressure/baggage can turn shit around. Cheers to bloody life guys! Edited July 30, 2016 by LaGoosh Quote
Paid Members LaGoosh Posted July 30, 2016 Paid Members Posted July 30, 2016 Not really a happy ending...more like I've got over my ex and looking forward to the future. But thanks anyway mate. Quote
King Coconut Posted July 30, 2016 Posted July 30, 2016 That IS a happy ending, you miserable fuck. Quote
Paid Members LaGoosh Posted July 30, 2016 Paid Members Posted July 30, 2016 Hahaha ok fair enough. Quote
Paid Members ReturnOfTheMack Posted July 30, 2016 Paid Members Posted July 30, 2016 After my ex wife left me I met my current fiancé the next day! Obviously we didn't get together for a while (well over a year), but the attraction was immediate. We left it so long as we were both recently single and didn't want to be rebounds. Quote
Paid Members Gus Mears Posted August 8, 2016 Paid Members Posted August 8, 2016 (edited) Dear Deidre, I ended up sleeping with my best female friend yesterday completely out of the blue. It's been a totally (and comfortably) platonic relationship for the best part of a decade, so it was slightly surprising. We've been in contact today and all is fine, but has anyone else ever had a 'friends with benefits' thing that hasn't irrevocably fucked up the relationship? I really wouldn't want this to. Edited August 8, 2016 by Gus Mears Quote
Paid Members Surf Digby Posted August 8, 2016 Paid Members Posted August 8, 2016 How did it come about? Were you drunk? If not, did one of you suggest it? Quote
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