Otto Dem Wanz Posted August 8, 2016 Share Posted August 8, 2016 Sounds like you don't need to worry if the contact has been normal today, if it's going to be weird or awkward it would manifest itself immediately wouldn't it? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paid Members Gus Mears Posted August 8, 2016 Paid Members Share Posted August 8, 2016 (edited) How did it come about? Were you drunk? If not, did one of you suggest it? Â Â Both relatively wankered, she suggested it, but it continued when both of us were not wankered anymore the following day. Â Sounds like you don't need to worry if the contact has been normal today, if it's going to be weird or awkward it would manifest itself immediately wouldn't it? Â I would think so, but she's just got hold of me asking me to come round later and I know where that is going. I'll see what's what later, I 'm tempted to just roll with it for the time being and see what happens. Edited August 8, 2016 by Gus Mears Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ladiesman345 Posted August 8, 2016 Share Posted August 8, 2016 It's all fine until you fall for her and it's not reciprocated and you stare into her eyes after sex like an intense puppy and she realises you're actually "making love" to her and she's just having a shag. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Keith Houchen Posted August 8, 2016 Share Posted August 8, 2016 When Gus Met Sally. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paid Members Gus Mears Posted August 8, 2016 Paid Members Share Posted August 8, 2016 (edited) It's all fine until you fall for her and it's not reciprocated and you stare into her eyes after sex like an intense puppy and she realises you're actually "making love" to her and she's just having a shag.   I think it's the opposite way around to be honest. She basically admitted that she had a crush on me for about five years but that I apparently rebuffed her ages ago while plastered, presumably because I'm a blithering idiot. I really don't know if I want an actual relationship with her. Probably not if I'm honest.  Somewhat damned if I do and damned if I don't on this.   When Gus Met Sally.   But unnervingly accurate, apart from the fact that she's not called Sally and I'm not called Gus. Edited August 8, 2016 by Gus Mears Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cobra_gordo Posted August 8, 2016 Share Posted August 8, 2016  It's all fine until you fall for her and it's not reciprocated and you stare into her eyes after sex like an intense puppy and she realises you're actually "making love" to her and she's just having a shag.   I think it's the opposite way around to be honest. She basically admitted that she had a crush on me for about five years but that I apparently rebuffed her ages ago while plastered, presumably because I'm a blithering idiot. I really don't know if I want an actual relationship with her. Probably not if I'm honest.  Somewhat damned if I do and damned if I don't on this.   When Gus Met Sally.   But unnervingly accurate, apart from the fact that she's not called Sally and I'm not called Gus.   Do you even have a moustache or is everything on the internet a lie? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrK Posted August 8, 2016 Share Posted August 8, 2016 Dear Deidre, Â I ended up sleeping with my best female friend yesterday completely out of the blue. It's been a totally (and comfortably) platonic relationship for the best part of a decade, so it was slightly surprising. We've been in contact today and all is fine, but has anyone else ever had a 'friends with benefits' thing that hasn't irrevocably fucked up the relationship? I really wouldn't want this to. Sounds like it's already fucked up. She's clearly more keen than you for something more than a quick shag. If you turn her down next time she wants sex then it will be too awkward to go back to what it was. My advice is to make hay while the sun shines and get as much sex as you can before it all goes tits up. Best make your peace with the knowledge that the friendship is never going back to what it was. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paid Members Gus Mears Posted August 9, 2016 Paid Members Share Posted August 9, 2016 (edited) Well I stayed over yesterday, same bed and all,  and absolutely nothing happened, we just jibbed about Tony Harrison (the one of Boosch, not the clever one), beer, Moss of The Month Club, the usual random bullshit as before, without bringing up anything serious. I ate pizza and salad, it was grand. I'm veering between thinking this is a good development and tearing my hair out because I haven't got a fucking clue what is going on. Edited August 9, 2016 by Gus Mears Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SuperBacon Posted August 13, 2016 Share Posted August 13, 2016 Genuinely asking for a friend, as he is a complete social recluse, but what is the best site/app for just hooking up and literally just one night stands? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paid Members Fox Piss Posted August 13, 2016 Paid Members Share Posted August 13, 2016 (edited) Sounds like his best bet would be a prostitute. Edited August 13, 2016 by Fox Piss Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SuperBacon Posted August 13, 2016 Share Posted August 13, 2016 Sounds like his bet would be a prostitute. Lol. I've got to convince him to get out the flat first.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paid Members Gus Mears Posted August 13, 2016 Paid Members Share Posted August 13, 2016 (edited) Get a prostitute delivered to his place then? I saw that in an episode of House once, so they must do delivery now.  Tinder does work if you put a bit of effort in. Signed up the other week and I'm meeting a few people next week. #FullMaxwell  I'm meeting 'When Gus met Sally' girl again later so will likely post what state of confusion I'm in tomorrow. Edited August 13, 2016 by Gus Mears Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paid Members SpursRiot2012 Posted August 13, 2016 Paid Members Share Posted August 13, 2016 Just tell your mate to google Adult Works and forget dating. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SuperBacon Posted August 13, 2016 Share Posted August 13, 2016 Just tell your mate to google Adult Works and forget dating. Â Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
uklaw Posted August 20, 2016 Share Posted August 20, 2016 Slowly but surely, I'm making contacts on Bumble, much to my surprise lol. Â In have prospective dates with an Australian blonde, a light-skinned French lady and a Zimbabwean lady. All very attractive. I'm very lucky :-) Knowing me, I'll be inclined to flake at least one of them before anything gets off the ground. Â I have to remind myself that it's the 'dating game' and not narrow my options too quickly. Wish me luck. Lol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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