Steve Justice Posted November 16, 2016 Share Posted November 16, 2016 I don't really care if he gets found out or not. My concern is that potentially two innocent parties could have severe repercussions because of his selfishness. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paid Members bAzTNM#1 Posted November 16, 2016 Paid Members Share Posted November 16, 2016 Just tell everybody involved and give your friend a good old baseball-batting for being a twat and for not being concerned about his, or other people's, sexual health. Â ADDED: When the docs thought I had Hepatitis A (which I don't have and they thought I had), they told me to give them the names of people I've been in contact with. Some random doctor phoned me up. You don't need to give the doctors the information (up here in Scotland anyway). I told them I would at least wait until I was diagnosed with it. Thank Christ I didn't have it. Phew. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr.E Posted November 16, 2016 Share Posted November 16, 2016 TECHNICALLY, can the "friend of a friend" be prosecuted for knowingly giving people STI's? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paid Members bAzTNM#1 Posted November 16, 2016 Paid Members Share Posted November 16, 2016 Unsure. I'm sure somebody got done here for knowingly giving people bad AIDS. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr.E Posted November 16, 2016 Share Posted November 16, 2016 I would presume, even though Aids seems to be a bigger "thing" generally, giving anybody an STI [knowingly], which in this case can lead to fertility issues, would be very bad. Â Might be worth consulting a local "legal team", and phoning him into the police. Bit drastic like, but you cant have him going about and just carry on A) being a bit of a twat and B) not caring about the sexual health of other. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Undefeated Steak Posted November 16, 2016 Share Posted November 16, 2016 Set up a fake Facebook account as a female, spend a week getting friends and making statuses so it looks like a legit account, then friend him and post on his wall telling any female who's slept with him should get checked out  Bit drastic but it's his own fault and saves women in future. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 16, 2016 Share Posted November 16, 2016 If your mate's happy to do nothing more than gossip to you about it, then I'm not sure I'd prioritise his friendship above the wellbeing of everyone his classy mate gets his grotty end away with. It does seem to fall on you, sadly, to be the better person on both their behalves. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve Justice Posted November 16, 2016 Share Posted November 16, 2016 It's unfortunately not as simple as him "gossiping" about it. There are other factors at play. My point is really about how I can get the information to her with as little collateral damage as possible. I've been told in confidence, not for any bragging rights or for the lolz. I don't want to betray that confidence, but obviously more important things are at stake also. Â I'm discussing it with a mutual friend this evening to see what the best option is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paid Members ElCece Posted November 16, 2016 Paid Members Share Posted November 16, 2016 Chlamydia in women can cause damage very quickly. I used to work in the area so I would seriously advise you get in touch with them ASAP. Try the free sim thing if you don't want to outright dob him in it. Quite honestly he only deserves so much protecting though Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Steve Justice Posted November 17, 2016 Share Posted November 17, 2016 If I knew her number, I would. All I have is her name and where she's from. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Posted November 17, 2016 Share Posted November 17, 2016 Have you tried going through their friends lists on Facebook? [Edit: Never mind, I've just re-read your first post.] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MungoChutney Posted November 17, 2016 Share Posted November 17, 2016 Have you tried the electoral roll for her area? That or 192.com, which costs, could help you to find an address to send an anonymous note to. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ian 86 Posted November 17, 2016 Share Posted November 17, 2016 Sending anonymous notes saying 'hi, you dont know who i am but you have probably got the clap'. Just when you think this place can't get any creepier.... Â Ring (or go to) the clap clinic, tell them whats happened and they'll tell you what you or they can do. Â Tell them you're concerned but have no way of contacting the ladies involved and they'll either tell you there's nothing they can do or they'll have a way to contact them - just remember to remind them to keep you anonymous. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MungoChutney Posted November 17, 2016 Share Posted November 17, 2016 I don't think it's creepy if the reason the note is being sent is to warn someone of a potentially life changing illness. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paid Members bAzTNM#1 Posted November 17, 2016 Paid Members Share Posted November 17, 2016 Yeah, just get them all told. Can't keep on wasting time with shit like this. You need to get it fixed. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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