SuperBacon Posted June 7, 2020 Share Posted June 7, 2020 Just now, johnnyboy said: Just a regular snap from the olden days when you'd get photos developed laying about. Not a Snapfish canvas printed from a iPhone up on the wall. So she did have a picture of herself with her boobs out in her room. That's...weird. But maybe she has nice boobs and wants to see a picture of them every day. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
King Coconut Posted June 7, 2020 Share Posted June 7, 2020 5 minutes ago, johnnyboy said: I'm probably not the best one to gauge the weirdness as there are tastefully nude pictures of the Mrs on the wall of our living room Correct. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paid Members CleetusVanDamme Posted June 7, 2020 Paid Members Share Posted June 7, 2020 You need to get a look at all her emails now, or be considered a cuck forever, imho. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnotherCrapUsername Posted June 7, 2020 Author Share Posted June 7, 2020 Should have mentioned that it’s not the first time she’s done this and when I bought it up the first time she got all defensive and kept saying that if I’ve got nothing to hide then she doesn’t see what the problem is. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AnotherCrapUsername Posted June 7, 2020 Author Share Posted June 7, 2020 23 minutes ago, johnnyboy said: That's not so great then. Would they have a problem if you were looking at their emails or private messages? I suppose then there's the question about if that's learned behaviour from family life and it's just a different perspective or if that's due to a trust issue from family, prior relationship, or something that's happened between the two of you. One thing I will say is that there's never going to be one size fits all. Some couples go so far that they have joint emails and social media etc. Personally, I find that creepy as fuck but it might work for them. A way of approaching it though may be to talk about you rather than about her. Instead of "you shouldn't look at my emails" - "I need to have my privacy respected". Explain how you see it and ask them how or why they see it differently. If you've got nothing to hide is weak sauce, but people sometimes don't want to face down their insecurities. Constructively arguing is really tricky and it can be easy to get backs up really quickly. https://www.healthista.com/9-golden-rules-of-fighting-clean/ Big fan of Andrew Marshall's stuff and have recommended his books to people in the past (maybe not on here though). She’s quite an insecure person if I’m brutally honest. Always asking if we are ok and such like. The subject of me looking at her personal emails and messages etc has never come up. My attitude towards that is that somethings are private and if you have something to hide it all comes out in the end. Theres an age gap of 12 years, which may be part of the differing attitudes towards it. Completely agree on couples having joint social media though. Creepy as fuck. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paid Members Tommy! Posted June 7, 2020 Paid Members Share Posted June 7, 2020 1 hour ago, ThommoLincs said: Theres an age gap of 12 years How old are you out of interest, do we need to sound the iffy poster alarm again because you're under 30? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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