AnotherCrapUsername Posted June 7, 2020 Posted June 7, 2020 So last night my girlfriend went all weird and started asking a load of que at ions about things that are unusual. She has just been on her iPad which this morning I remembered I’d used a few months back for a Zoom interview. I had logged into my emails in it to get the meeting ID and hadn’t logged out of them. There is nothing on there that I wouldn’t want her to see and when I checked this morning my email account h as been accessed from her iPad about ten minutes before she went all weird and started asking questions. I have now remotely logged out of it but I can’t help but be pissed off about it. How would you fine folks approach this? Thanks Quote
Paid Members gmoney Posted June 7, 2020 Paid Members Posted June 7, 2020 I'd ask her if she'd taken a look at my emails. What weird questions about unusual things was she asking? Quote
AnotherCrapUsername Posted June 7, 2020 Author Posted June 7, 2020 Was related to the new job that I’m starting and to do with my previous employer that I’m currently at odds with. I think I’m more pissed off about that fact that all she had to do was ask. Quote
Paid Members LaGoosh Posted June 7, 2020 Paid Members Posted June 7, 2020 Not really sure what advice you want. Just talk to her about it. Quote
Paid Members wandshogun09 Posted June 7, 2020 Paid Members Posted June 7, 2020 24 minutes ago, ThommoLincs said: I had logged into my emails in it to get the meeting ID and hadn’t logged out of them. There is nothing on there that I wouldn’t want her You sure you cleared your ‘deleted’ and ‘sent’ folders as well? That’s where she might’ve seen your subscription to Big Boobs Brenda’s Only Fans. Quote
AnotherCrapUsername Posted June 7, 2020 Author Posted June 7, 2020 Haha. Like I said there’s nothing on there that I wouldn’t feel the need to hide. Feels like a breach of trust and I’m not really sure how to approach it without causing an argument Quote
Paid Members wandshogun09 Posted June 7, 2020 Paid Members Posted June 7, 2020 Seems like you’re going to have an argument either way though. The longer you stay silent the more she’ll probably assume the worst of whatever she thinks you’ve done. Personally, I’d rather have the argument and get it out of the way than let the awkward silences kick in. At least that way you’ll know what the problem is and you can address it. Quote
AnotherCrapUsername Posted June 7, 2020 Author Posted June 7, 2020 3 minutes ago, wandshogun09 said: Seems like you’re going to have an argument either way though. The longer you stay silent the more she’ll probably assume the worst of whatever she thinks you’ve done. Personally, I’d rather have the argument and get it out of the way than let the awkward silences kick in. At least that way you’ll know what the problem is and you can address it. Thanks mate x Quote
Paid Members Tommy! Posted June 7, 2020 Paid Members Posted June 7, 2020 (edited) 16 minutes ago, wandshogun09 said: That’s where she might’ve seen your subscription to Big Boobs Brenda’s Only Fans. I think we can all take from this without any doubt ThommoLincs is signed up to some fart fetish website and doesn't realise it might be met with some displeasure from people outside the culture. Let it be written in ukff lore, neatly enough next to toilet-antics, Justice Steve. Edit: as far as advice goes I'd try to slyly give yourself a Dutch oven next time she let's one rip in bed and work off her reaction. If she seems OK with it open the conversation on making it a more formal part of the routine, perhaps on special occasions to start with Edited June 7, 2020 by Tommy! Quote
Members SuperBacon Posted June 7, 2020 Members Posted June 7, 2020 100% she's seen an email from this place, checked it out and is probably (quite rightly) disgusted you come on here. Quote
Paid Members Devon Malcolm Posted June 7, 2020 Paid Members Posted June 7, 2020 The time to really worry, @ThommoLincs, is if she claims to know stuff from your emails because she's psychic. Just don't stay with her for another 11 years after that like some people might. Quote
Members SuperBacon Posted June 7, 2020 Members Posted June 7, 2020 7 minutes ago, johnnyboy said: I once inadvertantly saw a picture of my sister-in-laws boobs when I was asked to do something in her room and the norks out picture was adjacent to the things I was working on She had a picture of herself with her tits out in her room? Quote
Paid Members gmoney Posted June 7, 2020 Paid Members Posted June 7, 2020 18 minutes ago, johnnyboy said: I agree, but I'd put it on a sliding scale. I once inadvertantly saw a picture of my sister-in-laws boobs when I was asked to do something in her room and the norks out picture was adjacent to the things I was working on. But did you start asking her about her bra size and how dark her nipples were? Quote
Paid Members Kookoocachu Posted June 7, 2020 Paid Members Posted June 7, 2020 You're overthinking this and that ultimately could make your situation a lot worse. Have you asked her if she's ok? You say these questions are relating to your job but you've not said what those questions are exactly. Quote
Mr_Danger Posted June 7, 2020 Posted June 7, 2020 Jesus man, just ask her, an argument isn’t the worst thing as long as you refrain from point scoring and keep the conflict healthy. @johnnyboy she wasn’t holding a fork in her picture was she? Quote
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