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I'm livid right now.Last night i had to call the doctor out again because of my sickness, not the pain, and allmost cried when i saw it was the same doctor He diagnosed me there and then with hypermises, great! im thinking, Now i can go to hospital, they give me IV fluids and i'll be fine, which is what usually happens with hyprmesis as your body has lost alot of fluid and you can keep any down if you take it orally. NOPE!!!! he just wanted me to 'try and eat and drink and see how i feel in the morning.' TRY AND EAT AND DRINK!!??? what the hell does he think i've been doing!?!?!?!?So my first errand of this morning was christening the porcelin throne with my puke, projectile this morning, i pat myself on the back for effort.I call the doctors surgery when it opens at 8:30 and speak to a doctor who i havent seen for years, but hey, after this idiot ive been having, i dont care.She told me to just sip tiny little amounts often and to see if i could sleep, so if i did have to go into hospital i'd have a little bit of energy, and that if i'm sick again, or feel any more faint than i do now to go straight to A&E.I wweighed myself this morning and i thought i was getting quite heavy, with me showing allready and before i got the sickness, i was eating everything in sight, but i've actually lost half a stone my collars so boney its gross :(Bleh i've really had enough of this allready. All my friends are telling me how they loved being pregant, and how their hair grew and their skin was glowing....Bollocks is what i say, bollocks.

MAT - I think this forum might be a little more appropriate for your pregnancy queries.

Had a bit of a scare last night, I've been having the usual aches and cramps from all the growing, but last night about 9pm i had the biggest, most painful stabbing going across all of my lower tummy. I had a bath and it seemed to calm down but then about 11pm it came back, and was so bad i couldnt move. I called the IDOC out and he had a good poke around my belly, around this time i started being violently sick everywhere. He called maternity and from what i could make out they actually wanted me to come in, i wanted to go in too, but the IDOC said that he didnt think there was a need as if i was misscarrying, or had an ectopic baby the pain would only be in one particular side.I wasnt very happy. He gave me some antiemetics and was on his way. He said i should just get some rest and wait for my scan, which isnt until the 18th. I slept today until about half 12, and just had the normal horrible disgusting sickness i get everyday, the pains are still there but no where near as bad. Just sucks because i've got enough problems at work with begging them to renew my contract on the 31st of march without being off sick too!Did anyone else have a similar experience?

Also, you cannot have a planned surprise. You're just covering now because you forgot to take your pill.

It was 'sort of' planned earlier. Make up your mindAnd no-one is saying you shouldn't go for it. I was just confirming my suspicious it was an accident.

If it's none of his business you may want to reconsider what you post on a public forum. It's not a dig, just an observation.

Just because i want to tell the world im pregnant doesnt mean it gives people the right to stick their noses in things that doesnt concern them.

He only asked a question. With the amount of detail you post about your life on here I don't think this was out of order. If you don't want to answer, then just don't. Hopefully it's just your hormones.

Honestly, I'm just asking because it seems a bit early into the relationship to have a planned child.Also, Jesus, a guy doesn't reply immediately and is a coward?And 'Sort of'. Does that just mean 'No but we'd discussed having a maybe one day perhaps in the future'?

Its really none of your business at the and of the day love.

If it's none of his business you may want to reconsider what you post on a public forum. It's not a dig, just an observation.

Congratulations MAT, hope everything goes well with the pregnancy. I'm hoping my little sister has some similar news over the next couple of years. Don't want to put a downer on things but she's had 2 ectopics within the space of 18 months and now has no fallopian tubes so is now on the IVF waiting list. I would happily give up my child bearing abilities if it meant she could have children, even though I want kids eventutally. It's just been so heartbreaking to see her go through it, once was bad but the second time was devastating. Especially since the first time it all happened due due to NHS neglect. They told her she was pregnant and sent her home ignoring the fact that she had severe pain all down once side. 12 hours later she was having emergency surgery clinging onto her life. Could have all been avoided. On a more positive note things are looking good for the future, she has a very very good chance of getting pregnant and having a child through IVF. It's not the getting pregnant that's the problem it was getting it through the tube down into the womb but IVF should sort that for her. Bless her, she's totally my hero. She's been to hell and back over the past couple of years and is still smiling!!

Honestly, I'm just asking because it seems a bit early into the relationship to have a planned child.Also, Jesus, a guy doesn't reply immediately and is a coward?And 'Sort of'. Does that just mean 'No but we'd discussed having a maybe one day perhaps in the future'?

THREE people have asked him that question now, hes being a coward, leave him to it.Also i would like to point out the fact that allthough there are some teenage parents that make a pigs ear of it, and some that are silly going through with something like this ie; 16 and unders commonly, there are also some fantastic teenagers that are great parents. I know a few people that have had a child between the ages of 16 and 19 and their kids are some of the best behaved, healthy, beautiful and respectful i've ever met. On the other side you've also got all the older parents in their 20's 30's etc who shouldnt have ever been allowed to have kids. It works both ways.

Out of curiosity, was this baby planned?

Oh trust me, ive got the rages. My poor saxo's door nearly came off the other night. Everythings pissing me off, little niggles that would at any other time just annoy me slightly enrage me. Been really close to splitting up with other half latley too, because according to him, this isnt because of hormones its because i dont love him anymore. He also cant get to grips with the fact that i really dont want to be 'near' him right now.gggrrrr......

Don't worry too much i think it's normal for the both of you,i felt like she didn't wanna know me & some of the things she said seemed like the hormones were just an excuse for her to say what she was really thinking,to an extent i still do think it,but i think that's more my own paranoia & insecurity.We 'split up' a shit load of times & it always ended in her saying she didn't mean it & needs me so it got to the point where i'd just ride out the arguments & not leave when she told me to cos i knew it'd end up with her calling me to come back or us really missing each other if i did go to my mums.You also mite start getting self loathing a bit,it's really horrible to watch & not really be able to do anything.But it's well worth it all in the end & you'll look back & probably laugh.Anywaaaay......I like Bethany Grace as a name,my mate's not long had a boy & he called him Dylan as well

yep.Boy: Dillan, or Dylan Matthew ClarkGirl: Bethany Grace ClarkI really want a boy, but im so so so sure it will be a girl! Also, i found out the other day, that Dylan meant 'The Sea' very apt for an islander!

Oh trust me, ive got the rages. My poor saxo's door nearly came off the other night. Everythings pissing me off, little niggles that would at any other time just annoy me slightly enrage me. Been really close to splitting up with other half latley too, because according to him, this isnt because of hormones its because i dont love him anymore. He also cant get to grips with the fact that i really dont want to be 'near' him right now.gggrrrr......

Well, the hormones have hit me.I've spent all of today fighting tears.I let myself cry a little bit earlier.Not tears of sadness at all. just when i thought about anything babyish my eyes watered.Weird.

awww sounds like you've got a proper little trooper there!!!!I demand more pics :pand look at my new sig!!!!!

What sort of nutcase has rings in their lip around small children? My daughter would pull at them all day. She clamped a clothes peg on my nose once.

Haha fair point,my five year old used to play with them when she was a baby,she didn't pull em that much though & she seemed toenjoy just feeling around & feeling them,so i should be ok.Hehe i wouldn't mind anyway,she can't do wrong in my eyesThey came home tonight so she's really relieved to be home in her own bed again after five nights in hospital,she's really tired now so im on feeding duty tonight.Which should be fun as Violet's a bit slow on feeding at the moment so it takes a bit of work,but we'll get there MAT...small babies don't really run in teh family,but i was tiny,i was three months premature & weighed less than a bag of sugar at one point & wasn't expected to make it,but i did & it amazes a lot of people,so i was pretty happy with her being 6lb 4

After being induced twice on saturday & once on sunday,first starting the contractions mid saturday afternoon & hardly any sleep in about 3 days for both of us my g/f finally gave birth to our daughter Violet-Starr at 10:38 this morning weighing 6lb 4oz.A hell of a lot of waiting & pain but it was all worth it & they're both doing fine.Just gotta monitor the missus's bloodpressure & temp & as long as its ok im hoping they'll be allowed home tomorrow,can't wait....

Glad that you're finally happy MAT. I could be your midwife

I'm getting so nervous about my appointment and i have no idea why!!!! silly me >.<I coped really well last night, until it hit about 11.15 and i allmost fell asleep right where i was sat!!! we also had to make a detour to a resturant so i could have some scampi On the tummy front im alot less 'firm' but still really rounded, maybe im just getting fat and had trapped wind in peculiar places! lmao!

Thanks everyone :)getting ready for my first night out, juice all the way!! lol, its a good thing im not much of a drinker anyhoo!My nausea's getting worse though I have my first midwife appt tomorow at 12pm scary stuff! >.<

Congrats MAT,i know what you mean, i couldn't keep it a secret when i found out my g/f was expecting,don't worry no matter how bad things get it really is all worth it in the end.Iv'e got a five year old daughter who's amazing,she's a total nutcase & can always make me laugh & cheer me up no matter what's wrong,i don't get to see her as much as i'd like but i still see her a few times a week or i have her when her mum goes out & when were together it's great cos it kinda feels like we're friends & not just father & daughter.Now my second daughters due in 2 weeks but my g/f's blood pressure has been high & she's been feeling unwell so the hospital did some tests & she has early signs of pre eclamsia,which is serious if left untreated,but they've found it early.The only cure is to deliver early,so they kept her in last night & they're going to induce her sometime today once a bed becomes free.So im just waiting around untill i can go see her at 11.But on the good side at some point today(hopefully) our little Violet-Starr will come into the world

Can we have a grammar bee please?

It's funny he's learning all the time, I got him to say constantinople the other week but he has trouble pronouncing his name, when I ask him he says he is called ilam instead of Liam.

It's quite strange how that sort of thing happens. My daughter speaks really well, but she cannot say chocolate. She says "gosh" instead of "choc".Congrats to MAT, hope all goes well. It's a bit early to be telling us though, you should've waited another 6 weeks.

lmao!!!! how far along was she then???i think the worst place ive been sick so far is in Macdonalds loos!!!

thanks i dont know how much more of this i can take though >.< the things that i used to love make me so ill

A thread for parents and parents to be of the UKFF!!!Who has kids? Who has a baby on the way?Best memories? Pictures?? Anything goes :thumbsup:I'm currently pregnant with my 1st, should be about 5-6 weeks, but not exactly sure, still waiting for the midwife to call to sort out an urgent dating scan for me as the doctor thought i might be 10weeks along!!!!Anyway, by MY dates, i think ill be due in bewteen sept 29th and oct 4th. Got alot of horrible symptons allready i cant get anything to shift the sickness or the constant exhaustion :(Apparently this is all worth it??? lol