 The Off-Topic Questions Thread, The Questions You Are Too Afraid To Ask |
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 Mar 28 2012, 16:52
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QUOTE (Steve Justice @ Mar 28 2012, 16:23)  Ummm, if you're on the dole I'm pretty sure you don't have to pay anything. The way I understand it works, is you're not giving the money for them to give her. They take everyone's money who has to pay, put it in a pot and distribute it to all the council girls. Richie's not on the dole, though it sounds like she is. Richie, you work for gumment, right? Anyone in your vicinity that can give you a help? --------------------  |
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Mar 28 2012, 17:06
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Curtain Jerker Group: Members Posts: 262 Joined: 11-July 11 Member No.: 19,711 |
QUOTE (Richie Freebird @ Mar 28 2012, 17:19) *Richie's Post* BII post sums it and if you can get as much advice as possible. Its a really shit situation to be in and some days it will feel like everything is conspiring against you but there is always help and people who can/will support you, don't give up hope and don't give in to her greediness. I hope everything goes ok. -------------------- "Read my thread, read my thread or I'll come round yours and leave you dead putting a UWF side plate by your head!"
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Mar 28 2012, 19:59
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 Inter-Continental Champion Group: Sig/Avatar Abusers Posts: 6,051 Joined: 3-March 09 From: Barrow Island Member No.: 13,829 |
QUOTE (Benoit is Innocent @ Mar 28 2012, 17:25) When did she make her claim to the CSA? That's important because her claim will only start from then so anytime prior to that is irrelevant as it can't be backdated. If she claimes say on 3rd March and you start paying on 3rd April the previous month would be backdated but nothing more. First of all, that was a brilliant and very helpful post: thank you. She only threatened to call them today when I told her I wouldn’t be paying her new, ridiculous demanded fee. Does that mean they can only back tax me to today then? I hope so. I thought I may have over 3 years worth to pay. QUOTE (Benoit is Innocent @ Mar 28 2012, 17:25) However, if you have your child fo any overnights per week this results in a deduction of what you pay. The brackets are 0-51 nights per year, 52-103 nights per year, 104-155 nights per year and then 156+ nights per year. So if you have your child 2 nights every week you pay less than someone who earns the sam ebut only has their child 1 night per week. He usually stays at mine Thursday – Sunday, but recent disputes have been affecting this. I can see her really lowering the times he’s allowed to come here if she can get more money out of it, which is the most scary part of all.  QUOTE (Benoit is Innocent @ Mar 28 2012, 17:25) You can also offer to pay direct into your ex's bank (that's what I do) and then you don;t incur any of the CSA charges. My suggestions is cooperate with them immediately and you'll find they're easy to deal with, certainly I've found this to be the case with the Falkirk office. I’d sooner pay it straight to her than deal with these bastards any day. I really should’ve been direct debiting her the money all along rather than cash in hand, but as I’ve said, we were “back together” for some periods where I was just doing the general buying rather than giving her money, so it was all a bit fucked up in that respect. The best case scenario is that she bottled phoning them on me today, and agrees to my new, higher offer of what I’ll freely pay her before the end of the month, then set up a direct debit for that money. That’s being really optimistic though. I doubt I’ll be having that kind of luck. QUOTE (Rosegarden Funeral @ Mar 28 2012, 17:52) Richie's not on the dole, though it sounds like she is. Richie, you work for gumment, right? Anyone in your vicinity that can give you a help? Correct on both fronts, though I work for them more “indirectly”, in the defence industry. We don't really have contact with any other aspect other than that, really. QUOTE (Rule One @ Mar 28 2012, 18:06) BII post sums it and if you can get as much advice as possible. Its a really shit situation to be in and some days it will feel like everything is conspiring against you but there is always help and people who can/will support you, don't give up hope and don't give in to her greediness. I hope everything goes ok. Thank you very much for the encouraging words, sir. I’m feeling slightly less depressed and frustrated at the situation than I was this afternoon already. --------------------  Provided by the UKFF 'Ugly Sig' Police |
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Mar 28 2012, 20:11
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 Mid Carder Group: Paid Members Posts: 1,789 Joined: 15-February 02 From: Russia With Love Member No.: 363 |
Richie, if you want to be safe and make sure that you don't have your young lad used as a weapon against you [/Jeremy Kyle] perhaps you should get some legal advice and a court agreed arrangement?
That way, your lad has a routine and there is no room for argument between you and the former Lady Freebird. Best of luck. -------------------- Proud consumer of 41 pink wafers in under 90 seconds.
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Mar 28 2012, 23:20
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 Card Filler Group: Members Posts: 805 Joined: 24-January 11 From: Ystrad Mynach, Caerphilly Member No.: 18,713 |
Does anyone have the Argos iPhone app? If so, I've had a notification on there for ages and I can't find any way to get rid of it, it's driving me nuts. Anyone know how to get rid of it?
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Mar 29 2012, 1:49
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European Champion Group: Paid Members Posts: 2,143 Joined: 22-November 05 From: The Lanes of Pleng Member No.: 7,486 |
QUOTE (Slapnut @ Mar 28 2012, 23:20) Does anyone have the Argos iPhone app? If so, I've had a notification on there for ages and I can't find any way to get rid of it, it's driving me nuts. Anyone know how to get rid of it? Take a ticket, I'll tell you later. -------------------- |
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Mar 29 2012, 15:02
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Help needed urgently!
Cany anybody reccomend a good DVD burning programme that's free? Has to be legal to because it's for work. -------------------- My physical address is 18 Kerrydale St, Glasgow, Glasgow City G40 3RE.
McCoist did it. |
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Mar 29 2012, 15:09
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-------------------- ..then, before i left, i turned around and told the judge "i'm here to state who i am and be honest with you." i said "if they thought i was dangerous on the road like you're trying to accuse me of, wouldn't they have taken my license when i first got it? yes they would. and the judge says "yeah, you have a point," he goes "you don't need to get loud," i said "don't get loud?" i says "i've got every right to get loud." i says "you can't do a god damn thing about it, because i'm expressing myself in your court, and there is nothing you can do about it. you think you're god because you have a robe and you can put people up the god damn river for 20 years? well you're not."
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Mar 29 2012, 15:12
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Mar 30 2012, 8:55
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What's the politically correct term for someone who's been cabbaged?
-------------------- QUOTE @HeelZiggler: here comes @TrueKofi I PROMISE IM NOT HIS OPPONENT TONITE..... or am i??? HAHA #BestOf1000Series |
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Mar 30 2012, 9:10
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Inter-Continental Champion Group: Sig/Avatar Abusers Posts: 6,051 Joined: 3-March 09 From: Barrow Island Member No.: 13,829 |
QUOTE (King Pitcos @ Mar 30 2012, 9:55) 'What's the politically correct term for someone who's been cabbaged? You’ll have to be more specific King’o. This post has been edited by Richie Freebird: Mar 30 2012, 9:15 -------------------- Provided by the UKFF 'Ugly Sig' Police |
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Mar 30 2012, 9:35
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 Mid Carder Group: Members Posts: 1,000 Joined: 13-August 05 From: Fucking London! Member No.: 6,835 |
QUOTE (King Pitcos @ Mar 30 2012, 9:55) What's the politically correct term for someone who's been cabbaged? Politically correct terminology for people with brain injury That's what you wanted right? -------------------- My name is not Steve
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Mar 30 2012, 9:37
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 Best In The Off-Topic World 2010 (with Frankie!) & 2011 Group: Paid Members Posts: 4,170 Joined: 17-September 07 From: Kingston, Jamaica Member No.: 10,962 |
QUOTE (King Pitcos @ Mar 30 2012, 9:55) What's the politically correct term for someone who's been cabbaged? Barmpot. -------------------- |
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Mar 30 2012, 9:48
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 European Champion Group: Moderators Posts: 4,620 Joined: 5-April 05 From: Here to Eternity Member No.: 6,033 |
QUOTE (Steve 'Big' Jobs @ Mar 30 2012, 9:35) QUOTE (King Pitcos @ Mar 30 2012, 9:55) What's the politically correct term for someone who's been cabbaged? Politically correct terminology for people with brain injury That's what you wanted right?  "Brain Injury Winner"
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Mar 30 2012, 10:58
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Main Eventer Group: Members Posts: 10,200 Joined: 10-April 09 Member No.: 14,013 |
Someone who has been in a car accident and is now a vegetable. Not comatose, not just paralysed, but a dribbler and can't speak.
-------------------- QUOTE @HeelZiggler: here comes @TrueKofi I PROMISE IM NOT HIS OPPONENT TONITE..... or am i??? HAHA #BestOf1000Series |
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